Seniors who suddenly find themselves single again may have a hard time getting back into dating But facing a life of loneliness is encouraging more seniors to actively seek companionship.
For those who’ve not dated in a while, there are five key things to know to avoid any pitfalls or heartbreak.
First, realize online dating has become the norm. There are sites that cater specifically to seniors. For those not comfortable with the idea be sure to ease into it. Get acquainted with a possible date over a phone call before agreeing to meet in person.
Some seniors might not want a serious relationship, but it’s perfectly fine and normal just to look for a companion to spend time with. Focus on common interests and someone who won’t pressure you.
As we age, it’s more important not to get hung up on superficial aspects like appearance or economic status. Look for someone you’ll feel comfortable being with. Recognize the rules have changed, for example, it’s acceptable for a woman to make the first introduction, and ground rules on who pays for what should be worked out in advance.
Finally, realize there can be people out there looking to scam you, so you’ll want to keep your eyes and ears open for anything suspicious.
Council of Seniors Wants to Put Money in Your Pocket
Dating might not factor into your retirement budget, so extra income will help. At Council of Seniors, we’re intently focused on getting Congress to pass The SAVE Benefits Act. This bill will strengthen the Social Security annual cost of living adjustment (COLA). In recent years, it hasn’t kept pace with inflation. As a result, if the bill passes, seniors will be reimbursed the $581 that’s been missing.
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